Woman Writes an Open Letter to Her Ex-Husband’s Future Wife
Love and commitment – in present times the less you talk about this, the better it is. Up until now I had just participated in debates about unsuccessful marriages, infidelity and fickle-minded love, but only now I know what it feels like.
I will be honest with you – don’t have any bitter feelings against you, but I don’t know how nice I can be to you either. After all, my husband is going to be yours now! The thought of you cooking meals for him, fixing his tie, laying on the couch arm-in-arm while watching TV and sharing his bed shatters! Little did I imagine eight years ago when I got married to him that he will be looking at another woman walking down the aisle in a pretty white dress! [ Read: An Open Letter To My Future Boyfriend ]
Ironically, even though I’m crushed to pieces, I am relieved. I had sensed that our marriage was failing for sometime now and despite living with each other, his presence would not lighten me up or make me happy! So I think we have saved each other from so much more misery by parting ways.
A marriage is the most crucial step you take, a moment where your life changes for the better. My marriage certainly gave me so many memories to cherish. He is a great catch – he makes you feel like a woman with his chivalry and at the same time encourages you to be independent! It is amazing how he makes life so easy and comfortable for you – in a blink of an eye he will resolve all your worries and simplify your problems. He is surely someone you can depend upon with your eyes closed! [ Read: She Wrote a Letter to Her Life Partner on his Birthday to Surprise him ]
Although our marriage couldn’t stand the test of times, I know I have found a true friend for lifetime from this relationship! Even after all the sourness, I am confident that if I ever go to him with a problem, he will be there for me. Like nothing has changed! So I would like to believe that our romantic bond has transformed into a strong friendship bond.
Another aspect that I’m glad about is that we don’t have any children who will be affected by this change in our relationship. When children come into the scenario, the equation just becomes complicated, for you as well as me. Since we have to deal with only three people, our problems are so much easier – you both live your life together, while I go ahead and do things that I have always wished for! (I think I’ll take that solo trip I’ve always wanted to take!) [ Read: An Open Letter by a Girl in a Long Distance Relationship ]
I won’t give you false suggestions as to how you should take care of him or any inside tips, since I’m sure you already have found your own sweet way. All I would like to say is respect my past with him and allow our relationship to stay as it is. [ Read: An Open Letter To My Future Wife ]
Wishing you and your love all the very best and hope that your life together is as joyous and smooth as it can be!