Ways to Hurt Less and Love More in a Relationship
Everyone in their life has that special ‘someone’ who acquires an integral position in their life. All their efforts of achieving success are made for them. The happiness of that one person with him they are in relationship matters the most to them. It is their choicest endeavors to lighten up the visage of their lady love or prince charming by that very smile. Their greatest joy lies in spending their leisure time with them, listening to their endless life talks, having that one magical embrace of their loved ones, adoring their beauty and making future plans with them. [ Read: 16 Bad Habits That Can Hurt Your #Relationship ]
Love is not made of expensive presents or making big fat promises. It comprises of small gestures, little, cute and mushy acts of love and affection that makes your partner to trust your love.
Below are some ways to love more and hurt less in your love life.
- Strong communication:
Well, your level of communication determines the strength of the bond both of you share. Especially, in a long distance relationship, a strong communication is what helps to sustain and flourish your relationship. Make regular phone calls, keep in touch through messaging services like whatsapp, hike and others. A strong communication makes you feel their absence less. The more you talk to each other, the more you get to know each other and the more you’ll fall in love with one another. [ Read: Things You Do That Can Get You Closer To Your Soul Mate ]
- Random phone calls to know about each other’s well-being:
Why to be bounded in time? You don’t have to see the clock to make a phone call to your love, do you? Call them whenever you get time that is, during the office breaks etc. This will undoubtedly bring a smile on your love’s face and will make her/him aware of the fact that you are on their mind always!
- Listening to each other:
One must learn to become a good listener so as to become a better partner and lover by understanding the other. When the other person is emotionally broken, all you need to do is listen them and make them feel that you are always there with them. This gives a great sense of security, and affection and helps to develop your partner’s trust over you. [ Read: Learning Lessons And Applying Them To Your Relationships ]
- Good morning and good night texts and calls:
What will be better than waking up in the morning and seeing a romantic and loving good morning message from your lover? It just makes your day! Similarly, your night goes smooth if the last person you talk to is your lover.
- Surprise gifts and dates:
You don’t have to wait for an occasion to gift your sweetheart something. Girls love it when their boyfriends present them with anything or plan out for some surprise for them. Your efforts to make your lover happy will melt them and will make them love you even more. [ Read: 8 Cool Gifting Ideas For Your Girlfriend ]
- Talk out your thoughts and plans:
It is very important for a couple to have transparency between them. All the differences must be talked and sorted out.
- Long rides:
Whenever time allows, go out for a long ride and stop somewhere to have a scoop of ice cream or some other snack and enjoy the evening and each other’s presence. That experience will be surely exhilarating and romantic for both of you. [ Read: The Wedding Gift ]
- Accompanying each other in their ideas of fun:
Yes, this one might be a bit difficult but it is worth giving a try. Most girls love to go out for shopping with their boyfriends. They would always prefer to wear and buy something that would please their lover too. Although, it is a pain for most men to accompany their ladies in shopping, but this can be done once in a while, at least? You know what, it will definitely turn out to be a great date for your girl. And for ladies, you should learn to watch cricket matches with your men. Enjoy your country winning with your partner. Also, if he likes reading, join him with some book of your choice. This will turn out to be a great time pass for each of you and will also help to develop your relationship.
- Cooking their favorite dishes:
It is said that the path of a man’s heart goes through his stomach. Hence, it will be a beautiful surprise for him to see you cooking his favorite dish. He would eat it proudly and will boast of its impeccable flavor in front of everyone. [ Read: 13 Best Ideas For A Dinner Date! ]
Hence, as promised before, above mentioned are some tips through which one can love more and hurt less. Do try these out, for it can take your relationship to the amazing ups!