7 Ways to be the Best Husband
Marrying the person you love is an assurance you are giving each other that together you shall never see a dip or dead-end in life; that despite the winding way, you will make the path beautiful. However, as husband and wife starts living together, your lives are set into a routine and all you will do with each other is work, eat, sleep, play with kids and run more errands! Where did the fun disappear? Life doesn’t seem beautiful anymore. To keep up the spice, you need to play the game and not sit out!
So how about being a better husband to your dream girl? It is amazing that you have a desire to be better for her, so sweep your love off her feet to bring back the joy! Here are a few things you can do to be the best husband to your wife –
- Daily Dose of Pampering
Give her a daily dose of affection! Small gestures during the day will make her feel important and loved. So you can give her a tight squeeze around the waist, hold hands while watching TV, massage her shoulders for a couple of minutes, give her a peck on her forehead, whatever you are comfortable with. All these actions will make her burst into that coy smile! [ Read : #Husband Writes An Open Letter to His Wife
- Strive for Peace
Fights are a weekly phenomenon in marriage life. So try to make peace. Make your own personal rule that you will avoid using words that enrage her or instigate fights! For instance, if she does not like listening to a ‘never,’ avoid using it or if an ex-girlfriend brings in tension, delete that name from your dictionary!
Another rule you can try to introduce is complete the argument/fight the same day so that at night you sleep arm-in-arm!
- Avoid Emotional Baggage
Everyone comes with baggage, so avoid that affecting your married life. It may be office pressure, family pressure, dealing with the kids or even each other’s habits – make it a point to let none of this move your relationship! In case your wife is unable to keep up with this, give her some space and allow her the liberty to spill it all out! After all, she’s your wife and you should know her well enough to deal with the baggage. [ Read : Wife Writes An Open Letter to Her #Husband ]
- Respect Her, Hear Her
More often than not, all the problems are only because she doesn’t feel like she’s heard! All the irritation, the bad cooking, laundry back logs are in frustration that her words are not paid any heed to! So for a change, sit her down and ask her to speak to you. As she speaks, show interest in the conversation, maybe pop open some wine and let it turn into a casual date night!
- Offer Support
Women are not robots! And they want you to understand that! With all the cooking, cleaning, grocery shopping, running around with the kids – it is surprising how this lady is standing by the end of the day! SO how about you work as a team; be a helping hand and offer to pick up the groceries or bring the kids back from school. Just hearing the proposal of help is going to make her day, let alone the fact that all this will actually take the burden off her shoulders. [ Read : A Heartfelt Message For The Best Wife From Her #Husband ]
- Speak the Love Language
Go out of your way to make her feel special and reminisce the initial years of your love affair! Bring home a bunch of her favorite flowers, leave cute romantic messages on her voice mail or answering machine, record a song and send it to her! Think of creative ways to remind her of your love- slip in a love letter under her pillow, plan a private dinner on your first-date anniversary or engagement anniversary, fly her to a romantic resort you both stayed at during your honeymoon and whatever else that will make her feel special and fall in love with you all over again!
- Share and Communicate
Share your work experiences, finances and friends’ stories and treat her like you buddy! Communicating with her will make her like she’s not just a wife, but a companion which is a great assurance to her! The more you share and communicate; your marriage will become stronger, healthier and happier! [ Read : 10 Tips to be a good house #husband ]
We all hear and talk about what wives ought to do to please her husband and build a happy married life, but when your wife sees you going out of the way to make her feel special and comfortable, you’ve won your ‘Best Husband Award’ then and there!
