5 Reasons Why Men Quit You

5 Reasons Why Men Quit You

Being alone is no fun. Even if you are all for loving oneself before anything, because at some point in life, you are bound to feel the need for human companionship. And there is nothing wrong with it, of course. There are so many among us who are on a perennial need and hunt for love – trying to find it everywhere they go,  anyone they meet. If all of the Adele songs seem like they speak your mind, then here’s a piece of advice for you. Before trying to embark on a journey of forever love, do some soul searching as to why love eludes you. Most importantly, try to figure out the reason/s why men quit you.

5 Reasons Why Men Quit You

So here are a few reasons why men might be quitting you.

  1. Clingy and emotional.

Men do not believe in rushing to commitment. They need their time, space and reasons. That’s why when a guy makes the commitment, know that it is for keeps. If you act all clingy and keep hinting that it is commitment you are looking for, and you want it soon – then all you are doing is sending out a message that you are emotionally unstable. Of course that’s enough to send any guy packing his bags. Men not only love, but even immensely respect girls who are emotionally stable and confident. So if you don’t want Men quitting you, make sure that you exude confidence. [Check out: 22 Things To Never Do After A Breakup ]

  1. Being preoccupied.

So you are an independent, hardworking, workaholic woman. All power to you girl. However, it is important to give your man your time and attention too. Don’t be so preoccupied that your man feels taken for granted and neglected. The key is to find a work and personal life balance.

  1. Your life is already full.

Weekdays are for your office colleagues. Weekends is brunch, shopping, movies and outing with your girlfriends. Festivals and celebrations are with cousins and family. Anything amiss here? When do you plan to give time to your man? If your life is already so full, your man is bound to feel left out. Take hold before it’s too late and take a romantic break from all the hustle bustle. [ Also read: Conversation Between Boy And Girl After Break-up ]

  1. You have a phobia.

Commitment phobia. If the very mention of the c-word send you feeling, then we have a serious problem, girl. While guys don’t rush to commitment, it surely is on their mind. If your overall demeanor shouts out loud that you are not looking for commitment ever, any guy would think twice before getting in a relationship with you. Guy or girl, commitment can be intimidating. I know. But it’s nothing to be so scared of. Consider the positives – you will have someone to spend your life with, a companion for all your happiness and sorrows. Go slow, but make sure you reach there.

  1. You are too easy. 

You know what’s better than being in a relationship. It is the chase, the romance of initiating a relationship. Trying to impress the person, dressing and trying the witty one liners. It is all so exciting. For your part, playing hard to get, giving in just a bit. That’s what makes the relationship so exciting. If you are way too easy. If you say yes to going out with anyone who offers so, if you don’t play a little hard to get – you are ruining it for yourself. Guys start judging girls who are way too easy. So girls, set a standard and set it high. It will do you a world of good. [ Read here: 7 Ways To Heal A Broken Heart ]

So girl, don’t lose heart. Possibly, the guys have been quitting you because the right way hasn’t reached you yet. Calm down, breathe and do your best. So ladies, comment below on why men quit women. Do share your thoughts.