Keys for a long-lasting Relationship
Long lasting relationship require some tiresome efforts. You start a relationship with a bang. In the beginning appears to be no less than a fairy tale love story, where everything is so perfect and beautiful. But no matter how beautiful you think is your relationship, you always stay doubtful and insecure when it comes to trusting your Partner.
Since nobody can predict the future especially when it’s about relationships. We can still try our best to save the relationship from coming to an end. There are some very simple keys that can help you have a long lasting relationship.
You have to be confident about yourself, about your looks, your ideas, about anything you do in life. That is because you can make your partner admire you and look up to you only when you make him realize that you have no complains with yourself. It will make him proud of you and he/she will feel more secure with you.
Don’t be very much insecure.
If you don’t want your partner to get irritated with you, and don’t want him to feel suffocated then, you should stop being too much insecure about him. Showing possessiveness is okay sometimes. But taking it too seriously can make your partner search for reasons to ignore you. It might be possible you end up having a serious fight.
Don’t interfere in your partner’s life.
That is the worst thing you possibly end up doing. Interfering in the personal space of your partner. You should not doubt your partner. To build a long lasting relationship you need to have trust your partner. Otherwise it has no existence. So you should start trusting him only then you will be able to have a lon lasting relationship with your partner.
Don’t take your partner for granted.
Just because your partner loves you blindly he is there for you anytime you need him and can do anything for you. Doesn’t mean you will start taking him for granted. You should never make such a mistake. Because a long-lasting relationship needs respect in it. You have to keep reminding yourself that the person you are in relationship is worthy enough to be your partner. Even you won’t like to date a person who has no self-respect. So don’t ever put him in such a situation where he will have to decide between you or his dignity.
Don’t act too cheesy.
Don’t ever act way too cheesy and so much loving with your partner. Since your partner might be of different nature. He might not feel the same passion and love in the relationship Or he might be very practical and realistic in life. Your cheesy behavior can make him turn off. When it’s about relationship, you should always be flexible and witty enough to understand your partner’s needs and wants, and then should act accordingly. Only then you can hope for a long-lasting relationship.
Always show your presence to him whenever he is in trouble.
You might forget his birthday for some other reason. But never ignore him when he is in the trouble. Because that’s when you are most needed by him. You need to comfort him by supporting completely.
Don’t just make it physically compatible but make it emotionally compatible too.
It should not be this way that you both are just sharing a relationship where he is just physically attached to you. Make him open-up, and be the one for him, to whom he becomes emotionally attached too.
For a long-lasting relationship don’t be so rigid and same throughout. You should be strong enough to face any circumstance in life. This will help you both in having a strong relationship.