How to Know if You are Not in Love Anymore

How to Know if You are Not in Love Anymore

Love is a very basic emotion which we all go through at some point in our lives. Falling in love is a very exciting thing and some of us experience love many a time in life. When we fall in love with someone, nothing in this world seems more important than the feelings we have for that person. Some people fall in love and are lucky enough to get in to a relationship with the person they have feelings for. Some have to bear the pain of unrequited love. Some people get to be with the person they love and the rest fail to woo the partner of their dreams. The feeling of love remains the same. Even if the person you are in love with does not reciprocate to your feelings, you cannot stop loving them. [ Read: 8 Perfect Ways to Mend a Broken Heart ]

How to Know if You are Not in Love Anymore

In the initial phase, nothing in this world seems more important than seeing or being in the company of the person you are in love with. The feelings you have for them take precedence over every other thing in your life. While a lot of people manage to sustain their feelings for a long time and their relationship grows with time, a lot of people lose interest in the person they are in love with and feel their feelings withering away. Human beings go through a lot of confusions when it comes to emotions. We are emotional beings and sometimes, we cannot make out where our emotions are leading us. If, for some reason, you feel that you are losing interest in your partner and do not feel as passionate about them as you used to, you need to think about it carefully before taking any step.

Here are a few ways to know if you are not in love any more:

  1. You avoid them

Earlier, you used to spend all your spare time with your partner. But, that is not the case any more. Your partner calls you up every day and invites you to spend time with him but you always make excuses and avoid meeting him. Why do you do that? You are not sure as to why you avoid his company but you are aware of the fact that spending time with him does not interest you as much as it used to. When you are in a relationship, you must make time for your partner. You will want to spend all the time you can squeeze out of your schedule to be spent in your beloved’s company. If you do not enjoy spending time with him anymore, it means you are losing interest in him. [ Read: 15 Healing a Broken Heart Quotes and Sayings


  1. They annoy you

A major reason why you do not wish to spend a lot of time with your partner is that they annoy you and get on your nerves. Your partner came across as an interesting person to you in the beginning but now all they do is irritate you with their habits. Two people can be different but if your partner has certain qualities or attributes that you find detestable, it would be difficult for you to put up with them. You have told them to mend their ways several times but they do not listen to you. Dating someone who annoys you does not work out at all. You were not aware of their irritating habits when you fell in love with them but now that you know, you do not wish to be with them any more.

  1. Jealousy

Two individuals, in a relationship, should help each other grow and be proud of each other’s success. Unfortunately, a lot of people are very insecure by nature and they cannot stand their partner doing better than them in their careers. They get jealous of them and suddenly, their behavior towards their partner changes. It would be a horrible thing to get jealous for your partner’s success. Instead, you should help them achieve greater things in life. If your partner is jealous and cannot see you moving forward in your life, then you are bound to get upset with them. [ Read: 7 Little Ways to Stop Being So Jealous In a Relationship ]

  1. Losing your freedom

Some people are very possessive of their partners and keep a watch on every move they make. These people like to control the lives of their partners but would never let their partners know what they are up to. Their over-possessive nature ends up making their partner upset and it eventually brings an end to the relationship. You are answerable to your partner and should share everything with them but they should not curb your freedom. In fact, your partner should make you feel like a free bird and should help you in achieving all your dreams.

  1. You do not care

You have stopped caring – about your partner and the relationship. There was a time when you used to call your partner several times a day to check on them but now you do not seem to bother as to how they are doing. You do not even think about your relationship and would not care much if it falls apart. This is a sign that you are no longer interested in contributing towards the growth of the relationship and losing interest in it. [ Read: Sometimes You Have To Act Like You Don’t Care ]

The first thing you feel after you have realized that you do not love your partner anymore is guilt. You are guilt ridden with the fact you do not love a person who cares for you. Of course, you do not feel bad if you know that your partner does not have any feelings for you. You must understand that it is perfectly fine to fall out of love. You just need to be honest with your partner and keep them informed about the same.