How to Kiss a Friend and Get Away With it
You might have a friend from the opposite sex whom you have never been attracted to. It is natural to get attracted to people from the opposite gender. You would have been attracted to your friend in the past and would have always managed to brush away that emotion as momentary lapse of reason. Even if you are not in love with your friend, you feel attracted to them. When you are sexually attracted to them, you feel the urge to kiss them. You might want to do a lot of other things but a kiss is definitely the first step towards making your fantasies come true. [ Read: Video: 7 Best Ways to Kiss Each Other
You do not want to date your friend and want the both of you to remain friends. However, you want to share that one kiss with your friend which could help in releasing the sexual tension that is running through your body. You want things to remain normal between the two of you but for that you need to let go of your pent up emotions. But, will things stay normal after you kiss your friend? Chances are that your friend will be furious at you and that would be the end of your friendship. The only way in which you can get away with kissing your friend and keep thins normal is to do it slowly.
Here are a few ways to kiss a friend and get away with it:
- Move your face
If you share a very strong bond with your friend, he should not have any qualms with kissing you on your cheeks. Look for a good opportunity and when he tries to plant a kiss on your cheeks, move your face in another direction so that his lips brush against yours. You can make him kiss you on your lips even when his intention is not the same. He will feel a little awkward and probably guilty for doing so but you should tell him that it was an accident and you are fine with it. You have to move your face in a careless manner so that he does not get to know that you have done it on purpose. [ Read: Meaning of Different Types of Kisses]
- Get drunk
Take your friend out for a party and get him drunk. You must act intoxicated too so that even as he realises that you have kissed him, he will not blame you as he would think you to be in an inebriated state. Try to get him drunk to an extent that he would not remember that you kissed him. Do not force him to drink. Just bring along the drinks and start drinking yourself. Party like you guys do on a regular weekend. If he has a thing for alcohol, it would make the process all the more easy for you.
- Take a dare
The game ‘truth or dare’ makes people do crazy things. People who play this game often find themselves in embarrassing situations. Anyways, the whole idea of this game is to have some fun with your close friends. Even if you land yourself in some terrible situation and make a fool of yourself, it is okay as it is a part of the game and everybody keeps mum about it. Now, if you want to fulfill your wish to kiss your friend through this game, you have to stage everything carefully. Get a friend to help you out and ask him to put you through a dare to kiss your friend. Your friend might be shocked at first but if they take the game in the right spirit, they wouldn’t have any issues with you kissing them. You have to remember that you are doing this as a part of the game. Do not kiss him for long or do anything inappropriate. [ Read: 6 Romantic Things to do for Your Girlfriend ]
- Wait for the tough times
If your friend is going through a rough patch in his life, you would obviously go and console him. In such times, getting physically close to your friend is pretty normal. Hug them and let them rest on your shoulders. It would not be right to take advantage of his vulnerable state, but if you are hell bent on kissing them it could be the right time to do so. After you hug them and plant a kiss on their cheeks, you could go ahead and kiss him on the lips as well.
- When you are happy
Sometimes, you get over enthusiastic because of something and cannot seem to control your happiness. You could kiss your friend in such a moment and you could justify it by saying that it was a mistake and you did this because of your joyful state of mind. Even if they mind it, they would not say anything as you are happy. They would not spoil this moment by expressing their disapproval over your action. You have to convince them that you are bursting with joy and your reaction was a result of the same. [ Read: 13 Best Ways To Cuddles Your Boyfriend ]
One should try to stay away from kissing or getting physically intimate with their friends. Doing such a thing could put an end to your friendship. Yes, sometimes it becomes difficult to keep your hormones under check, and that is when you indulge in such activities. If you are not able to control your emotions and have decided to kiss your friend, then you must plan it carefully so that you can get away with it and it would not end up affecting your friendship.