How to Fix a Broken Relationship
Before you try to fix a broken relationship, ask yourself if your broken relationship is worth fixing. There could be many reasons why the relationship crumbled. Some could be fixed and things could be brought back to the way they were. But some mistakes are irreparable. Over time, taking the following small steps in your relationship can lead to massive changes and help you bring back the spark. I will walk you through those steps. Good luck with your relationship.
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Ignite the lost spark
A lot of the time, relationships lose their spark simply because you and your partner are not ding anything exiting enough to keep the relationship lively and joyful. If this is the reason why you are falling out, you could fix it just by trying something new together. Something that you guys talked about doing in the beginning days of your relationship.
Be attentive
If you want it to workout, again, then have to be attentive. Being attentive doesn’t mean you have to sit through their verbal abuse. You just have to listen, listen properly to what they got to say. Listen to your partner’s feelings intently. Let them say why you fell out of the relationship, let them say what can be done to fix it. Interruption, over-talking, dismissing, or minimizing should be avoided.
Show concern
Have some compassion, let them see that you are still concerned about their well being. Be as concerned as you were in the beginning of the relationship. Make something special for them. Ask them out on a date, go watch a movie together. Give them a compliment, thank them for the good things they did in your life.
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Fix your broken relationship
Stop rewriting history. You can talk about what went wrong, once or maybe twice. But don’t keep bringing up the issues from the past. No matter how angry, hurt, or vengeful you are, you should be able to start trusting them slowly. Without trust, there’s no way you could get back to where you were in the relationship. Rebuilding trust, though extremely hard, is not impossible. You did it once, so you should be able to do it again. And also be accountable for what you did. Would you like to read more? Let me know in comments below if you want a part 2 for this article.
