How to Approach a Girl You Don’t Know and Impress Her

How to Approach a Girl You Don’t Know and Impress Her

How to Approach a Girl You Don’t Know and Impress Her

Suppose you meet or see a girl at a party who is really beautiful and pretty. But you don’t know her and you are meeting her for the first time. You feel you are in love with her and you wish to approach her. What will you do?

Simply walking up to her and trying to talk to her will be not justified and easy to do. You first need to come to her notice, see how she reacts towards you and then finally approach her. By approaching, we don’t mean straight away telling her that you like her and you want to date her. Approaching would mean saying hi, hello and just exchanging numbers. You need to first become friends with her and then analyze if you really want to date her or not. [ Read: 12 Best Ways To Avoid The First Impression Disaster! ]

But here, the most difficult part while approaching a girl is when you don’t know her at all and you may be seeing her for the first time ever in you life.

The following are a few tips that will help you while you are going to approach a girl that you want to be with and talk to –

  1. Do not fear rejection

The first thing that comes to your mind before you even think of approaching a girl is the fear of rejection. Because of this fear, you tend to sit back and forget about your feelings before you even give it a try. [ Read: 7 Best Ways To Easily Impress Girls ]

  1. Come to her notice

When you are among a gathering and there a lot many people, then it may be difficult for her to notice you unless you are the special guest of honor in that particular party. So it is important that you come to her notice by doing something out of the box and different from the crowd.

  1. Pass on romantic gestures

Once you have come to her notice and you can clearly see that she is looking at you, you can pass on romantic gestures to show that you are interested in having a one-on-one conversation with her. [ Read: This Valentine Day, EXPRESS to IMPRESS {Your Crush} ]

  1. Go and talk to her

She will surely smile back at you if she finds you good enough to talk and be with. Once this happens, you can simply walk up to her and to start with your conversation, you can say hi, hello and offer her a drink. Then you can further proceed by asking her questions like what’s you name, what do you do, from where do you belong, etc. But don’t bore with a list of questions; instead try to have a funny and healthy conversations that helps in keeping her interested in you.

  1. Ask her for her number politely

Once you know she is really interested in having a long conversation with you, ask her polite if that’s okay with her to share her mobile number with you. If you are not comfortable in asking for her number directly, instead ask for her card. It is an even better way to indirectly have her number. [ Read: Can A Girl Ask A Guy Out Before He Asks Her Out? ]

  1. Text her or call her

Now that you have your number, what are you waiting for? Take a break of 1 day or two and text her saying hi, remember me? Don’t forget that she has given you her number by her own choice, so it is quiet possible that she may also be waiting for you call or text. If you are hesitating in calling her then you can simply drop in a text. Try and be friends with her. Tell her as many things about yourself as you can so that she can build up a trust towards you.

  1. Ask her out on a date

Tell her that you wish to see her again soon. If she agrees then good enough for you, and if she makes excuses, give her time. Once you know her well enough that she calls you a good person to talk to, then you can ask her again to meet you. I am sure, she wont refuse. [ Read: Brother Writes an Emotional Letter to His Little Sister ]

  1. Impress her

Once she has agreed on meeting you, plan well in advance for the date to make it special and memorable for her. Girls love surprises, so you can think of gifting her some chocolates, flower, a greeting card or even a small ornament (only if it is in your budget). This way you will definitely impress and she will know that you are really falling for her.

  1. Give her time to think

Done rush into things even when you know that you have strong feelings for her and she is the one you want to be with. Remember that you cannot have her forcefully. You have done your part by impressing her expressing your feelings for her. Wait for her to make the next move now. If your love for her is true, she will definitely agree to date you. [ Read: 13 Relationship Mistakes New Couples Make All the Time! ]

Approaching a girl you like but you do not know is not difficult. But it is important that you don’t rush into things straight away. You cannot just go up to her and tell her that you are in love with her and you wish to date her. The above given are a few tips and steps to explain how you can approach a girl and impress her step by step. Follow them and sooner or late, she will be all yours.