Here are 8 Ways to Inspire Unmotivated Friends and Family Members

Here are 8 Ways to Inspire Unmotivated Friends and Family Members

Unmotivated family members and friends can be quite a deal breaker in our life. If you get to them with charge and dominance, they might mistake your concern as interference. You don’t want to lose your friends over something that they fail to see and you have to bring it to their eyes, as a pal. They might be having issues like addiction to drugs, weight issues, family conflicts, loner behavior or other such symptoms.

Here are 8 ways to inspire unmotivated friends and family members

Here is how you can help them and motivate them for a better future.

  1. Confront them in a friendly manner

Firstly, you need to know what they think about the problem at hand. Choose the right time to talk about the problem and things that you think should be looked after. Don’t pursue them when they are emotionally low or are stressed out about something. Confront them as a confidante, a friend or a protective figure and not as someone who is alleging or blaming them. [ Read: 25 ways to create More Opportunity, Adventure & Friendship with Others ]

  1. Listen what they have to say

Listen to what they have to say, why they are so low or unmotivated. Listen to what is distracting them or hindering their progress. If they do have a plan in mind, to go about their problem, listen to that as well intently, without interrupting them.

  1. Help them in any way you can

Once you have heard their side of the story. Start with suggesting small steps that they can take to make the situation better. Tell them, what you think about the situation and how it is affecting their life. Tell them that how they have changed since a few years or months. Tell them the ill effects that are hampering their progress. Make them see, what they aren’t seeing, albeit in a friendly manner. Hold their hand or offer them complete support while stating this. [ Read: 10 Ways to Make Friends in a New City Post-College ]

  1. Offer your support and presence for the same

Devise an action plan regarding their unmotivated attitude. And involve yourself in it. Ask them to plan it themselves and include you in the scene along with them. Chalk out the plan with them and constantly give your views and opinions.

  1. Get enrolled in a program with them

If your family members or friends are suffering from obesity, get enrolled in a weight loss program with them, even though you might not be that fat. If your friend is suffering from drug addiction, get them enrolled in a rehab center that will help them out. Be a constant pillar of support, to motivate them continuously. If it is your child, and he is negligent about his studies, enroll him into home tuitions or take his oral exams by yourself. This will give them some support which was lacking previously. [ Read: 10 Ways to Turn a Conversation into a Potential Friendship ]

  1. Make sure they don’t take it badly

Make sure you convey your concern and offer your help in a friendly manner. They should not feel offended by it or should be intimidated by you. Remember, that you can only be the second wheel, not the first wheel in their journey.

  1. Don’t judge them

Don’t judge them by calling them fat, or thinking how lazy they are, or calling them names and talking behind their back. This is the worst you can do. This will drive them more and more into the coop and recovery will be very difficult from there. Be a friend and not a judge of their actions and words. [ Read: 50 Relationship Questions to Test Your Compatibility ]

  1. Lead by example

If your friend or family members still remains unmotivated, you can lead them by example. If you want your children to eat fruits and leafy vegetables, the first step is to instill them in your diet and eat them in front of your kids.

How do you keep your family members and friends motivated and excited? Share your tips and tricks with us in the comments section.