How To Flirt With A Guy Without Really Flirting
Flirting is an art that very few manage to master. If you are a girl, then making a pass at a guy is something that you need to carefully plan about. Usually, girls prefer to keep things simple without going overboard. After all, they expect the guy to make the first move. If you flirt with a guy directly, he will not take you seriously. You have to make him to love you. For that, you need to flirt with him without actually flirting. Sounds confusing? While one expects guys to be a little forward and straight with their flirting efforts, girls should be a little subtle if they want the guy to take the first step. You have to suggest to him that you are interested without going all out with your emotions. [ Read: Why it’s Good to Flirt as Teenagers Even When You Become Adults
Here are a few ways to flirt with a guy without really flirting:
- Smile
Smile at him to show that you are interested. Make sure that he notices your smile. Keep smiling at him for some time. If you are already talking to him, sprinkle your conversation with a smile. Even if you are standing away from him, smile at him from a distance and make sure he notices it. The smile should convey something. He should get to know that you are smiling at him and not somebody else. If he smiles back at you then he is interested. [ Read: How to Tell if Your Flirtation-ship is Headed Nowhere ]
- Express yourself
Even if you are not saying things directly, you have to express yourself sufficiently well. You could say something that does not convey directly that you are interested in him but provide a hidden message which would make him realize that you are interested in him. You cannot say this to him directly but he should, in some way, get to know the same.
- Look into his eyes
Making eye contact with a person you are interested in is very important. Do not stare at him for a very long time. Look into his eyes only for as long for him to notice. After he has noticed your stare and has realized that you are looking at him, move your eyes to another direction. Your stare should convey the feelings you have for them but it should not be a desperate stare. There should be a twinkle in your eye which catches his attention. [ Read: Flirt Tips for Women that can Attract Men ]
- Physical contact
A little bit of physical contact always helps in establishing a familiarity between two people. Hold his hand for a second or just brush your arm against his. Do not do anything that would make him uncomfortable. The touch should last only for a few seconds. You should not touch him in an inappropriate way. The touch should make him smile and give him a sense of closeness between the two of you. Give him the idea that you have touched him accidentally. Do this at regular intervals without repeating it often.
- Let your eyes speak
Eyes can speak a thousand words which our voice fails to convey. You need to use your expressive eyes to your advantage and let them do the talking. Your eyes can convey a thousand expressions. You just need to learn how to express yourself through them. Let your mischief play in your eyes. [ Read: Flirt Like Crazy Then Going Completely Cold ]
- Compliment him
An effective way to impress a guy is to compliment him. Praise him on his looks or the way he carries himself. You could also congratulate him on some achievement. You really do not need to think very hard or look for a reason to compliment him. Even if it is a small achievement, do not miss out an opportunity to praise him. Your compliment should be genuine and should not come across as fake. If you compliment him on a vague thing, he will know that you are doing this just to impress him.
- Tease him
There are several ways in which you can tease a guy. You can just crack a joke or fool around with him. Engage him in some playful banter and he will start taking interest in you. Talk to him in a playful way and keep things light and fun. But, you have to be careful while you go about teasing him. There is a very thin line between teasing someone and flirting with them. If you do not want to cross that line, you must refrain from making any suggestions that could lead him to believe that you are trying to flirt with him. [ Read: Dealing With Your Man’s Flirty Female Friends ]
If you are really into a guy, you should not wait for a long time for him to make the first move. While you wait for him to approach you, he could zoom off with another girl. You should drop hints at him suggesting that you are interested in him and wait for him to make the next move.
