Fascinating Life Of Mr. and Mrs. Shergill – Promises They Made To Each Other
“Why can’t you remember the first time we meet? How can you forget such fascinating date of our life??” Shouted Mrs. Shergill. Mr. Shergill felt like a fish out of the water, the grin on his face showed clearly how confused and scared he was.This was the second time he forgot yet another date! He gathered some little bit of courage and replied in a shaky but kind of cute voice “Baby this is not right. I remember the date and it was raining that day, you were wearing a red saree and having sweet corn”, Mrs. Shergill frowned her eyebrows, scratched her head and frowned again, “I am asking for the date! I forget that doesn’t mean you too will forget, and I know I wore a red saree and all, but what is the date??”
Fascinating isn’t it?? We all want our married life to be free from all kind of abuses and male dominating experiences and this is exactly how it should be. So, today I will be sharing some of the promises made by Mr. and Mrs. Shergill to each other before tying the knot.
1/ We promise to understand each other’s job and respect them
Yes, they had to promise each other a sorted out understanding. As it is Mrs. Shergill is a journalist and she has to work 24*7, and at times, even she had to stay overnight in her office. Mr. Shergill is an interior designer cum photographer, so he too at times had to travel overseas, work with unknown people; understanding each other’s job and understanding each others ambition was important.
2/ Never allow unwanted gossips to hamper our personal life
Keeping in mind that they both had an extraordinary job profile, gossips or some flying talks did come their way. Sometimes they were related to professionals and sometimes those gossips tried to enter their personal space, but they never allowed it spoil their life. They decided to talk and sort it out. Yes, talk and sort out any problems, especially something like “Flying gossips”.
3/ Giving time to each other
No matter how busy we would be, no matter how hard we worked the whole month, taking out time to spend with each other every week is a must. It can be anything, for a simple lunch or dinner together, or a simple night talks together. And a must 4 days holiday planning with each other.
During that time we would keep away our cell-phones and laptops. Just utilize the time to talk to each other, convey those unsaid emotions, sort out any dispute (if any), talk about how the entire month went and avoid business gossips.
4/ To help each other whenever possible
Like preparing the Sunday meal together, washing the clothes, preparing the bed , in short dividing the responsibilities together equally. Not just imposing them on one person, even the work which the man of the house does, have to be done by the lady of the house at times. Helping each other to keep things at ease should be the priority.
5/ Always stand up for each other
No matter how hard or nasty a situation be, we both would stand by each other like a tough wall. Hard to break and even harder to demolish it. Problems come and goes, but standing by each other and keeping that trust is important.
Be it an issue where the families are involved or be it in front of any close friend, I will always stand by you, no matter what. How fascinating it is to be each others side, stiff like a rock. This is how love is and this is what makes a relationship stay strong.
6/ Have each other say on every decision
Yes, including each other’s advice on every important decision. Be it that simple painting the house or that big plan to think about family planning, there should be equal understanding in the decision. And this is how their life looks so perfect.A marriage is not just about how good you together in a frame, it’s about how perfect you are behind the frame. Commitment or promises play an active part in every marriage.
A marriage is not just about how good you together in a frame, it’s about how perfect you are behind the frame. Commitment or promises play an active part in every marriage.And not just those taken during marrying each other, but those lifetime promises that should be made to fulfill. A fascinating life after marriage is all about how well you both understand each other, not how well you both fight for divorce with each other.