Does your Man always Stare at Other Women?
Does the fact that your man constantly stares at other women worry you? Even though your man is loyal to you, he cannot stop his eyes from roving around. It is human nature to get attracted to the opposite sex but one must be careful and not give in to temptations. Your man keeps his temptations in check but at the same time cannot stop himself from looking around. You should not get stressed about this as long as he stays loyal to you. But, at the same time you must try to get him rid of his habit. [ Read: A Guy with a Girlfriend Likes You… Now What?! ]
There must be several instances when the woman, whom he was looking at, noticed his gaze and felt uncomfortable or gave him a dirty look. Now, that makes you uncomfortable, does not it? Also, being a woman you must know how it feels when a man looks at you constantly. There are times when you both go out with your friends and you friends notice him looking at other women. That must be causing you a lot of embarrassment. Apart from the fact that you do not like him going about this activity, it also brings you a lot of embarrassment and shame. [ Read: I Wasn’t Treating My Husband Fairly, It Wasn’t Fair ]
There are several ways to deal with this situation. The first thing you should keep in mind that you should avoid doing anything that could jeopardize your relationship. Try to get him out of this habit and make him realize his mistake without confronting him directly. When you are with him and he looks at other women, try to distract him by talking to him about something or bringing his attention to something important. When he looks at other women, he does not notice what is happening around him and seems to be lost. You must snap him out of this trance and bring him back to listening to you. If you are with him, he needs to divert all his attention towards you. He should not be looking at someone else. If a normal conversation does not work, try to get a bit romantic and talk about some amatory things that would make him feel romantic and mushy. You need to make him realize that when you are around, he need not look at anybody else. [ Read: 15 Things Girls Wish Guys Knew about Girls ]
You must give him a bit of a jolt when he is looking at other women. When you see him looking at a particular woman, you need to startle him by discussing something about her. Talk to him about the dress she is wearing or how wonderful her complexion is. Talking to him about the woman he is looking at will give him a bit of a shock and he will get a little conscious. He will realize you can see him looking at other women and would think twice before dong this act in the future. If you have some close friends, you could seek their make them a part of the plan. In fact, they could provide you with several ideas to control his gaze. You must include only those friends who are extremely close to you. At the end of the day, he is your partner and you should not make a fool out of him by talking about his habit to everyone. You do not want your friends to think ill of your friend. This is a fairly sensitive issue and it should be dealt with in a mature way. You must request your friends to be careful and not to do anything that would put your partner in a trouble. [ Read: 15 Signs that Proves You to be a High Maintenance Woman! ]
Sometimes, you need to show people the mirror to make them realize their mistakes. It may sound crazy but perhaps[s, you could start looking at other men in his presence. He will notice your actions just the way you notice his. This will, undoubtedly, make him feel uncomfortable. At first, he could think of talking to you about it but then he will realize he does the same thing. That will make him realize his mistake and will make him stop doing it. If he gets mad at you, then you must give it right back to him and tell him that he is a hypocrite. Tell him sharply that if he can indulge in such activities, the why can’t you. [ Read: 13 Annoying Things Boyfriends Do and How to Avoid Them ]
If nothing works, the only solution left is to talk to him directly. Yes, this is something you would not like to do but you have tried doing everything to stop him. Now, this is the only option left with you. Before his habit snowballs in to something bigger and the world gets to know about it, it would be better if you talk him out of this habit. You must be very calm while talking to him. You must assure him that you are not mad. You love him at him and the only thing you would like him to do is mend his way. [ Read: Cute Little Things Guys Do That Girls LOVE So Much… ]
Getting your man rid of this habit is not a difficult task. It all depends on how maturely you deal with the situation. This is not a big issue. Not as yet. So, you need to be calm and deal with this situation appropriately. Do not over react and do anything impulsive that could make thing worse for both of you. You must be patient but if he goes beyond a certain limit then there is no point in holding on to him or the relationship.