7 Reasons Why You Can’t Get Him Off Your Mind
Women often tend to obsess over their ex –boyfriend or their prospective boyfriend. In any case, if you keep thinking about him all the time, you’re definitely in a soup and won’t be able to get him off your mind. You might be confused as to why you can’t stop thinking about him.
There are various scenarios and situations in which a woman can’t stop obsessing over a guy.
Let’s try to find a few reasons why women can’t get that one guy off their minds?
- Failure to express love to the guy you like
One sided love can be very tough. You might see him every day or hear about him from other girls or friends, which can be quite hard for a woman who is absolutely smitten by the guy.
The failure to express your emotions for him might be building up in your mind and this makes you obsess about him and constantly think about what he might be doing.
It is tough but it can’t go on like this, if you like somebody, it is extremely important to go ahead and share your feelings with him, for your own well being. Even if it is a no, it will give you a reason to move on.
- Not getting enough attention or love from your boyfriend
It can so happen that a woman is in a relationship with the guy she likes, yet she keeps obsessing about him all day. This happens when things aren’t going too smoothly or as the woman expected. He might not be meeting your expectations and this constantly hurts you. If he can’t take your hints or continues to hurt your sentiments, its best you confront him or leave him.
- Your boyfriend is scared of commitment
When a girl is in a relationship, she longs for a commitment. If your boyfriend is taking it casually and just putting off serious commitment, it can hurt you. It will make you think about why he is delaying it or whether he doesn’t like you enough. This can fill a woman’s mind full of doubts and questions which can inadvertently lead to constantly thinking about him
- He flirts with other girls
This one is tricky. He is your boyfriend and loves you, but he loves flirting with other girls. This can make a woman jealous and insecure. She might even doubt or suspect her boyfriend and constantly have silly questions. Seeing your own boyfriend with other ladies can result constant fear in your mind about his loyalty and intentions. Some women might find it difficult to express their insecurity to their boyfriend and this can lead to constant over thinking.
- Unable to accept that he has moved on
This is the most common reason why a woman can’t stop thinking about her ex-boyfriend. A failed relationship is difficult to get over and more so when he has happily made a new girlfriend. It can make a woman extremely envious. This gives rise to constant comparison between her and the ex’s new girlfriend in her mind. Seeing somebody you shared so much with happily moved on, while she is still stuck up on him can be quite tough.
- Also read: 5 Reasons to NOT hate your EX
- Lack of social life
You might also be thinking about your crush, present boyfriend or your ex-boyfriend constantly if you have cut off all other people from your life. It is important to keep meeting your friends, family and other guys to lessen the effect of that one guy on your mind. In fact it is necessary to keep other people in your life so that a one person doesn’t take over your mind and heart completely.
- Sudden downswing of self esteem
You might be feeling rejected, low and worthless. Sometimes everyone tends to feel that way. Maybe your crush doesn’t like you or you got dumped by your boyfriend. This can lead to constant self reflection and self pity and putting him high up on a pedestal. But it is important to know that, such moments happen with all people and what is important to get up and get back there, because one person’s opinion of you is not the fact of your life!
- Read here: Rebuilding lost trust: a lost cause?
Do you have an experience of obsessing over someone and how you finally got over it? Please share it with us in the comments section.