5 Reasons Why Hardships Make Love Stronger
Loving someone is not very hard to do, what is difficult is to maintain a relationship with them and keep it growing despite all odds. Confessing love is not the biggest part of a relationship, it is only the beginning of one. Being a part of the relationship and taking it ahead requires a lot of effort and patience. There are several upswings and downswings. A relationship has to go through lows and highs and have to be faced by both the partners together. If the partners are with each other through the thick and thin, it may only make their love stronger. [ Read: The Painful Part of Every Relationship ]
As they say, if you have pain in your finger, you apply balm on it, don’t cut it off. Similarly, if your relationship is going through a rough patch, you must have patience and do things that would smoothen it not break it up just cause off some turbulence. If a pilot would panic each time the plane faces turbulence, he might actually end up crashing it.
Let’s see a few reasons why hardships would make love stronger.
- Overcoming hurdles makes one more confident of each other
If two people overcome the hurdles in their relationship, it makes them more confident as partners. It makes the two people more compatible and trustful regarding each other. Both partners grow confident of each other and emerge victorious of any conflict that arises. If a couple doesn’t have any problem together, they haven’t lived life together and they might totally break apart when a crisis comes up. [ Read: 8 tips for writing love letters ]
- People trust them more as a couple and that increases their faith
If two people can work out a rocky marriage or a bad financial status through their relationship, it makes them very inspiring as a couple. Other couples see them as their hero and often cite their examples. Thus, the couple gains more confidence seeing people have faith in their compatibility and union. People will begin to see you as an example of companionship and love, which can only make you happier with your partner.
- People remember hard times and people who supported them
People have this tendency to remember who was with them in their hard times. The friends or family who supports them through tough times are always appreciated and remembered by others. If you are facing a hardship with your partner and are able to support and motivate them through it, the person will always appreciate you in their life. [ Read: 7 Reasons why true love is selfless ]
- Overcoming the worst faces and phases, gives strength
When someone has to deal with a bad phase, they often become arrogant, irritating and very teary. If two people can deal with the worst faces of each other through their worst times, then it is safe to say that they can always be together. It’s like they have overcome the worst in their life together. Some people absolutely lose their minds when another person is in depression. They think that they cannot handle their behavior and look for the next exit out of the relationship. But if you make your peace with the behavior and a tendency of the person during a crisis and accept it as a phase, it will give strength to you, your partner and your relationship.
- Makes life easier
When you know that there is somebody to share all the troubles, hardships and problems with you, you don’t worry too much about everything in life. This will keep your health good and keep you worry free. Knowing you have a companion, who doesn’t get deterred by hardships and problems will make you comfortable and give you peace. Finding a soul mate who is ready to face any challenge in life by holding your hand is the biggest treasure in life. [ Read: 10 cute ways to remind your boyfriend that you love him ]
Has your relationship stood the test of time? What are the hardships you have overcome with your partner? Share your experiences with us in the comments section.