5 Habits To Cultivate A Strong And Healthy Relationship.
Listed in this article are 5 habits that are much needed to lead a healthy and strong relationship.
“There are only two ways to live life –one is as though nothing is a miracle the other is as though everything is a miracle.”—Albert Einstein
Personally, I am the guy who will vouch for the second way proposed by the great physicist. I do firmly believe that everything in life happens for a reason. And relationships a great part of it and every moment of a relationship must be cherished. Call it the curse of our modern lives, that today we no longer give a relationship all the time and effort that it needs. So here are certain simple habits, both for him and her, which if taken up will become the bedrocks of a strong and healthy relationship.
The grass is always greener on the other side:
We, humans, have this tendency to always compare our lives with others based on their homes their jobs, their clothes etc. And we also do this with respect to our partners.
Everybody talks about what a healthy relationship must have –trust in each other, faith etc. I am here to talk about what a strong relationship must not have and that is this tendency of comparing our partners with other people’s partners. So the first in the 5 habits to develop a strong relationship is to stop this useless comparison.
Showing then what they mean:
Love is a poet and a healthy relationship it’s poetry. We humans have become all busy in our modern lives and in the process have lost our touch on the subtle language of showing love.
Showing love doesn’t mean buying gifts for each other and having awesome sex. It’s about those little petty deeds that shout out that-“Yes, I love you” Developing a habit of telling your partner what makes you feel loved is one of the most important things in an amicable relationship, thus making it’s way to the list of 5 habits.
There was a Chinese proverb that reads, “Everybody has a tongue bout not everybody knows how to speak”.So true right? Communication is the key to a good relationship.
Being able to communicate your feelings—no matter how awkward or uncomfortable it feels, it will make for a lasting and fulfilling relationship.
The sense of respect for each other brings a whole new level of harmony into a relationship. Just like there are different ways to make someone feel loved, in the same sense respect also has many forms.
Maintaining a joyful relationship means respecting your partner’s time, heart, character, and trust. However, there are many things people do in relationships that can break down respect, like name-calling, and/or threaten to leave the relationship.
Time Apart is important for a healthy relationship
Yes! I know that it sounds contrary to the regular believe of spending more and more time together.
Spending time apart is as important as spending time together because it keeps you independent. When a couple spends time together they tend to develop a very unhealthy co-dependence, which later goes on to become one of the reason for the relationship to fall apart. So these are 5 simple habits that make up a wow-relationship that every novice would emulate to cultivate a meaningful relationship.
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