13 Reasons Why Nice Guys Finish Last
“I’m done with bad boys! I’m going to date a good guy now!” How often have you heard women cry like this before! Yet, they fall for another bad boy and the cycle continues!
Women may say the wish for a good guy, but in reality they will always be attracted to only the jerks!
If you want to know why, here is a list of reasons why nice guys always end up with finishing last-
- Not bad boy
We have already established the fact that women will always opt for the bad boy! They are attracted to the rugged, naughty behavior; a temptation which is quite difficult to resist. So unfortunately, in the fight between the red devil and white the red angel wins the girl! [ Read: 11 Bad Girl Traits Every Guy Seeks In His Girl! ]
- Always agrees to everything
Nice guys are sweet and always agree to everything that the girl says. Many a times the nice guy will not be satisfied with the girl’s action, yet to be in the good books he will just say yes. So, if you think by agreeing to all that she says you are going to win brownie points, think twice because that’s not how girls are won over!
- Doesn’t have an opinion of his own
Be it selecting a restaurant or deciding which dish to order or how to spend your money, the guy doesn’t take a stand! Unlike the bad boys, this one asks for your opinion, which is very amicable, however if he doesn’t question your opinion it is a big put off. Women will like that you care about their view, yet don’t be afraid to give your own! [ Read: 12 Things Guys Like in a Girl besides Her Appearance ]
- Doesn’t stand up
You notice him being a timid mouse when you’ll are waiting in the queue outside a club; he doesn’t say anything to the bouncer who wouldn’t let you inside – this is just one of the instances. Nice guys tend to get intimidated; they just keep quiet when someone misbehaves with them and for women, this is quite a turn-off!
- No power
Bad boys show off their power! Whether this means flexing their muscles or talking their way through people! Women feel proud to walk by a person who emits power in his walk and talk and that is where nice guys lose out – because their personality doesn’t allow them to portray power even though they have it! [ Read: 12 Lines Singles Are Tired Of Listening! ]
- Perceived personality
Unfortunately, the boring tags never leaves nice guys. By default, the universe sketches a sweet face, with spectacles and a tucked-in white shirt when they think of a nice guy. In short, women think that is boring and this image is why nice guys never reach the finishing line!
- Not spontaneous
Most nice guys are good planners; they like to have every move in order. This means no excitement! What fun is a relationship, if there are no spontaneous weekend trips or a surprise visit! So, even though you like to plan your actions to avoid mishaps, women like that thrill of spontaneity! [ Read: 5 Reasons why being single is not so bad ]
- Easily manipulated
A nice guy just listens to everything you say, believe everything you do and agree to your views – basically, it is very easy to manipulate these guys! Moreover, despite knowing that the girl is manipulating him, he will just go along because he is afraid to lose her! This just annoys the girl to her last nerve!
- Nice isn’t enough
So what if you are nice? Yes, you heard right – girls don’t wish to settle for nice, they aspire for great! A nice guy just ends up being that friend who she shares her tears with, but a great guy is who will sweep her off her feet! [ Read: 10 Exciting Ways To Find Missed Connection ]
- No self-respect
People often make the nice guy the joker of the table and he doesn’t mind it! Not only that, he thinks that he is being a sport by taking the joke forward. However, by cracking jokes on himself, he is just proving that he doesn’t have any self-respect and to win acceptance of his peers, he is being the laughing stock.
These guys seem to be level headed and mature, but wait for a couple of weeks and their true colours will be revealed! In reality, nice guys are very insecure and needy – they need constant reassurance that you like them, or you enjoy their company, or that you aren’t cheating of them! This is something women don’t want to deal with! [ Read: Boyfriend Writes An Open Letter To His Girlfriend ]
- Stress out
Come a tricky situation and you see sweat beads on his forehead! For instance, there has been an accident and you are surrounded by cops. Even though you haven’t done anything wrong the guy will completely stress out and become weak! This may or may not aggravate the situation, but it will definitely break your relationship!
- Nothing unique
All guys are chivalrous and gentle – they hold the door open for the girl, pull up a chair, and so on. So what is so different about nice guys? You need to have something special that will attract girls and just being nice isn’t one of them! [ Read: 10 Things You Should Not Give Up For A Relationship ]
If you know you are a nice guy, don’t try to become the bad one – girls will not know who to connect with! Take guidance, but eventually mould these tips into your own personality because the best way to win a girl over is to be yourself and show her the real you!