10 Sure Signs You can’t Trust the Guy You are Dating
Trust is by far the most important part of a relationship. It doesn’t matter if your relationship is that of a new one or a long term old one. Trust is one thing that makes your life worthwhile while you share your life with the other partner. There comes a phase in relationship where you fall more for that person and you realize that now it’s the time to take things forward. You find it important to seek and eliminate all the possible doubts in your mind before continuing it any further. You have a crystal clear approach to take it further. [ Read: 12 Clear Signs You Have Big Commitment Issues! ]
Trust is the basic foundation of love in any relationship. It is nearly impossible to have an emotional connection with someone you can’t trust entirely. It is really unfortunate that we live in a world where lying is as easily as it can be and the person feels it’s no big deal.
But whatever the case asks for, don’t be that dumb lady out of which scumbags love takes advantage of. Be the smart and bold lady that you are, decide your destiny on your own. You are the own master of your life. Don’t let anybody control it. Take full control of your life and figure out if your man can be trusted or not. Sometimes it is very easy to tell but sometimes it’s not. You need to pay attention to the signs so that they take you to the right direction. [ Read: The Only 7 Tests Of True Love For Him And Her ]
- Pointless explanations!
If he is not able to give you a satisfactory explanation as to why he cancelled your date, or was an hour late for your party, then it’s time for you to be suspicious. You should give your man the benefit of the doubt, it at the end of the day, you think that he always tends to give you unsatisfactory explanations, you definitely have the right to distrust him. Telling the truth is as simple as it takes. Moulding conversations and giving explanations is more of a task. If your guy is fumbling with his words or giving you vague explanations, then he is definitely hiding something. [ Read: 10 Biggest Dating Turn Offs for Guys That Girls Don’t Know About! ]
- Very secretive with phone calls!
If your man always tends to get up and go to the other room for attending a call, you know there is something he is hiding from you. It possibly could be a business matter or personal matter he might be attending to, but at the end of the day, if you two are in a relationship, doing something as easy as answering a phone call in your presence shouldn’t be a problem. If he does this very often and if he refuses to leave his phone with you, you can be sure he has something to hide.
- Not available for you!
One of the easiest ways you can trust a guy is measuring his loyalty to you. You should be able to count on him whenever you need him the most. It could be anything, be it your hard times, be it your good party times, he should be present on every occasion of yours. If he is all time ready to help you at any time of the day, then you can definitely trust him with all your heart. But if he is always finding reasons to avoid being with you, then you should take it as a red flag that he cannot be trusted. [ Read: Read Why We Should Not Force Love And Give It Time ]
- You don’t have any clue about his friends!
Another sign you cannot trust the man you are with can be the reason that you don’t know his friends quite well. This does not clearly mean that you have to be best friends with his friends. The main point is that they should know you are and what place do you stand for your guy. If his friends tend to forget who you are the few times you meet up, then it is an indication that guy doesn’t talk about you at all or his friends have lost the track who he is dating now. They might be getting introduced to a new girl very often, thus the mind slip ups. Be attentive that his friends know you well and vice versa. [ Read: 15 Ways To Deal With The Workaholic Boyfriend! ]
- Takes a long time to reply!
If your man commits you to be there for you 24/7, then it should not take forever to reply to your phone calls or messages. He should feel happy by having a conversation with you, not a burden. If it always takes him forever to text you back, then you know you are not the priority of his life. He might be in the meeting or his phone must have died down. But if it happens too often, then you have the right to distrust him completely. [ Read: Girls Here Are 10 Big Perks Of Having A Guy As Your Best Friend ]
- Habit of cancelling your plans!
If he has this nasty habit of cancelling plans on you at the very last minute, then you should rethink of trusting him. Surely, there is a chance that he was caught up in work or the last minute important meetings. But, if he cancels up plans with you leaving no explanations on a regular basis, then he is definitely up for something else in life.
- Always seen with other girls!
When you or somebody else known to you catch him out with some other woman with whom he’s being flirty or touchy with, you will know surely that you can’t trust him. If he actually cares for you, then he would not be out with other chicks and flirting around with them. [ Read: Cute Little Things Guys Do That Girls LOVE So Much… ]
- He’s claiming that he’s always working!
If the man you are dating is always out for work or claiming that he is, then there is something fishy about it. He too might be saying that he’s picking up new hobbies at obscure hours. It doesn’t solve the issues if he’s coming or going for new hobbies at weird hours. It adds to the issues in the relationship. [ Read: 6 Things Men Will Never Tell You But You Know Are True ]
- Lied to you in the past!
If he has already given you enough reasons to doubt on him, then don’t think it will end in future. He might be lying to you again. If he has a history of cheating in the past too, with his former girlfriends, then there is no reason why he can’t cheat on you too. Some people just cannot be trusted in life. It is too bad if you find the same about your guy. It is never too late to face someone’s true colours. If you face it too, then don’t go sad, think in the positive way that it came out early in your life. [ Read: Double Date with other couples – Pros and Cons ]
- He leaves out information too conveniently!
If he is guilty of leaving out information in the past too, then you know there is something else going on in his mind. Remember that leaving out information is even worse than lying. He might have given you a similar case like this, that there was a boys’ night out and some days later you come to know that there were girls too. If he has nothing to hide, he won’t hide it. [ Read: 7 Signs He Will Choose Another Woman ]
If your guy is giving you the above reasons or a few of the reasons on a regular basis, then you know what your call is. You need to follow your gut when the relationship circumstances come up.