10 Subtle Cues a Girl Gives If She Wants You to Make the First Move
While a lot of times, it is the girl who likes the guy first; it still remains an unwritten rule for the guy to approach her first. A girl always wants to have the upper hand in a relationship and there is nothing wrong about it. But, how does a guy know if a girl is interested in him? Well, a girl always drops subtle hints and gives cues for the guy to understand that she is interested and he should make a move now.
Here are 10 subtle cues a girl gives if she wants you to make the first move:
- Her words
She could drop hints while you both are having a perfectly normal conversation. She would not put it directly but say a few things to let you know that she is interested. You need to read in between the lines and decipher the meaning of her sentences. You must go with the flow of the conversation and act accordingly. If you fail to get the cues in the conversation, you could lose out on a good opportunity. [ Read: 15 Must Know Relationship Advice for Women ]
- Her eyes
A person could express a thousand things through their eyes. You must notice her eyes closely. If there is a glint or spark in her eyes that suggest something, you must take things from there. You must learn to read the eyes of a girl.
- Batting of eyelids
Batting of eyelids is often considered to be a suggestive expression. If a girl keeps blinking at you, it means she has something going on in her mind. You must be sharp enough not to overlook this aspect even as you are talking to her. [ Read: 7 Little Ways to Stop Being So Jealous In a Relationship ]
- Her expressions
It is not too difficult to understand what a person feels by seeing the expressions on their face. If you have known a girl for some time and notice a change in her expressions when you talk to her now, you must figure out why. What exactly is she feeling can be comprehended by her expressions. If she seems a little happier in your presence than she used to be, then probably she has started liking you a lot more.
- Feels comfortable
A girl who did not feel very comfortable or was slightly conscious of your presence in the past now feels at ease in your presence. In fact, she gets more and more comfortable with every meeting. If you like the girl, now is the time to make the first move and approach her. If she is very comfortable around you, she would not mind you approaching her. [ Read: 11 Not-So-Obvious Things Your Guy Loves About You ]
- Talks a lot
A person would talk to you only if they like you. The conversation could end in a few sentences or it could go on for hours. If it is the latter, then the two person talking are very comfortable with each other and do not mind talking to each other for long. It would not be too appropriate while you are at with your conversation.
- Her smile
Smile indicates a sense of being happy. If she smiles a lot when she is with you it means she is happy in your company. The way she smiles could indicate a lot of things. Is it a friendly smile or one that implies something else? You must figure that out to know what she is trying to convey. If you feel her smile is bright and wide enough to suggest that she is interested in you, then you should approach her. [ Read: 30 Sweet and Cute Things to Say to Your Boyfriend ]
- The way she looks at you
Notice the way she looks at you. Does she also look at you stealthily while you are doing something else? Does she feel shy when you are looking at her? If yes, then she is definitely interested in you. Now, it is up to you to muster the courage to go ahead and talk to her. If a girl is attracted towards you, she will definitely want to look at you more often.
- Physical contact
When you really like someone, you feel like getting closer to them physically. It could feel very awkward if a stranger touches you physically. But, if you know a girl for a fairly long time and she touches you or her skin brushes up against yours, then you would not mind that. You should notice whether it was an accidental touch or is she trying to get close to you. You can figure that out if she touches you again and again or if her touch lasts for long. [ Read: 11 Ways to Make Your Guy Feel Appreciated and Cared For ]
- Trying to meet again
You just met a girl for the first time. After you bid goodbye she insists on meeting again. What does this mean? It means that she has really enjoyed your company and likes you. Plan the next meeting carefully. You should set up a meeting soon and do something special for her that would make her happy.
A girl may like you but would never make the first move. You should be okay with that and try to keep your eyes and ears open to catch the cues and hints she drops. It is very important to know what are the cues that she is going to give you. You should be careful enough not to misinterpret anything that she says or does. Getting the wrong signals is worse than not understanding anything at all.