10 Signs of Attraction in the First Conversation
Love happens at first sight and sometimes, it happens in the first conversation itself. Sometimes, a person feels a connection with someone in their very first conversation. Don’t panic instead, take your time to read the instincts. This will help you.
Here are 10 Signs of Attraction in the First Conversation
- He keeps looking at you
Even as he talks to you, he cannot stop looking at you with a sharp gaze. Of course, a person will look at you when he is talking to you. But, when you realize that he is looking at you in a intense manner, you must know that he is interested in you. There is something in you that attracts him and he cannot seem to take his eyes off you. [ Read: Conversation Between Boy And Girl After Break-up ]
- He queries you about your relationship status
He asks you about your relationship status. The question may take you by surprise but do not avoid it. Being truthful with him or not is completely your choice. Even if you are single and the guy does not interest you, you could lie about your relationship status. Or, you could be firm and tell him the truth whatever it may be, and show him the red signal.
- He cannot stop smiling
He keeps smiling throughout the conversation. At first, you think of it as a polite gesture but later you realize he is grinning from ear to ear and you cannot help it but can merely wonder as to what is making him so happy. After a while, you realize it’s you. Your presence is what making him happy and his smile is a testimony to that. Smile back at him but be sure that you do not let him get any wrong ideas. [ Read: 10 Ways to Turn a Conversation into a Potential Friendship ]
- He tries to please you
Although he has met you for the first time, for some reason, he tries to do things that would make you happy. From pulling out the chair for you to offering you a bar of chocolate, he seems very eager to please you. He tries to do everything he can to make you happy. He does these things to make you appreciate his efforts and to notice him.
- He hints at being single
You did not ask him even once about his relationship status, but he keeps dropping hints at being single and available. He might go as far as mentioning it directly. He even talks about his last relationship and how did it end up in a break-up. He keeps emphasizing the fact that he has moved on and is ready to date another person. [ Read: 21 Ways To Start A Conversation With The Guy You Like ]
There are moments when he gets all silent and keeps staring at you blankly. You are talking to him and asking him to share his views on something, but he does not reply. All he does keep looking at you with a faint smile playing on his lips. You have to shake him out of his blank state. It happens because he is attracted towards you and finds it difficult to concentrate on the conversation.
- Tries to prolong the conversation
You want to leave and try to say goodbye to him, but he does not let you do so. He tries several ways to prolong the conversation and let the words flow. He does not stop talking from his end and tries his best to keep you engaged in the conversation. He is completely smitten by you and does not want to let go of this one chance to win your love. [ Read: 18 Signs that Your Date Actually Likes You on the First Date! ]
- Compliments you
He keeps complimenting you on your looks, outfit, etiquettes, table manners etc. Although he has met you for the first time, he is completely taken by the way you carry yourself and cannot stop complimenting you. He showers compliments on you because he genuinely likes you. You could thank him for his gesture but must understand why he is doing that.
- He seeks your attention
He gets a little upset when you look at the other end and do not listen to something that he is saying. He wants your undivided attention. He is completely bowled over by your charm and the least he expects is some attention from your end. He does not let any interruption or somebody else talk to you. If he tries to please you and you do not pay any heed to him, it could upset him. [ Read: 16 Common Relationship Advice that Holds the Power to Ruin Your Love Life! ]
- He suggests another meeting
When it’s time for you to part ways, he requests you to share your contact details and offers to share his details too. He hints at meeting again. He could ask you out for coffee or could even request you to accompany him to an art exhibition. If you find him interesting, you could say yes to him or could make some excuse.
If a guy is interested in you, take it as a compliment. Do not get intimidated if he approaches you. Of course, if you find the guy to be creepy, stay away from him and get yourself out of the conversation and turn him down politely. Whereas, if he comes across as a fairly nice guy, talk to him, get to know him.