Marry, Date or Dump – How Do Women Decide This?
Men often find it difficult to understand women. They always try to figure out what is going on in their minds but fail. I am dating her, but is she going to dump me? Should I propose to her? I like a girl, would she be interested in dating me? These are a few questions that always play in the mind of a man. If you fail to understand the mind of a woman, you will never know which step to take next. You feel flummoxed and are not able to arrive at any conclusion. [ Read: Reasons Why You Got Dumped ]
How do you know if a woman would date you?
When you are interested in a girl, you try to figure out ways to know whether she likes you too. Even if she does not, you want to know if there is a chance of you wooing her. Maybe you are scared of rejection, but if you do not try you will never know.
- You are good looking
Looks might not be important to some people but a lot of people get interested in you because of the way you look. The first thing that a woman would notice in you is the way you look. If she finds you good looking and attractive she would think of approaching you. [ Read: Why Are You Still Dating The Wrong Person? ]
- You seem interesting
The one thing you expect your date to be is interesting. He should not be a dull person and going out on a date with him should be a fun experience. Do you consider yourself to be an interesting person? If yes, then there are many women out there who would like to go on a date with you.
- You talk well
A god conversation is very important in a date. You must speak well and have a way with words. If you are someone who makes lively conversations, she would definitely like to go out with you. You must talk to her eloquently every time you get to meet her. This will leave a good impression. [ Read: 11 Things a Break-up can Teach You about Life ]
Is she going to marry you?
Once two people date each other for a long time and are sure they want to spend the rest of their lives together, they think of getting married. You might have thought of marriage, but how do you know if your partner is interested in tying the knot or not? Proposing to someone could be more difficult than asking someone out on a date. It is a huge decision and it puts a lot of pressure on an individual.
- You earn well
Every woman looks for a partner who is financially stable and can take care of her needs. There is nothing wrong about having this expectation, right? You need to figure out for yourself whether you earn well enough to look after her after you both get married. Your expenses will probably double, and you should be ready for that responsibility. [ Read: Practical Signs He’s the One You Should Marry ]
- You have a bright future
A good future is directly proportional to how well your career is going. If you are headed in the right direction in your career and there has been a steady growth in your professional life, it will give her the impression that you have a bright future and she will have to face no trouble after she gets married to you.
- You are willing to commit
Marriage calls for lifelong commitment to your partner. If you are thinking of getting married, you must be ready to make that kind of commitment. If you feel you’re ready, you should waste no time in proposing to her. [ Read: 9 Ways to Tell if Your Guy Wants to Marry You ]
Is she going to dump you?
Now, this is one thing you would not like her to do to you. Once she dumps you and the relationship ends, there is no hope left for you take things further. That is why you should not jump to any conclusion and carefully go about the process of figuring out what is on her mind.
- She has lost in interest in you
She might have agreed to date you for some reason but now she finds you to be an uninteresting person. She finds you to be dull and does not like spending time with you. If you do not enjoy the time that you spend with your partner, then you are clearly not meant for each other. [ Read: Before Encountering Her I Never Believed in the Idea of Experiencing a ‘True Love’ ]
- You are not serious
You are someone who takes everything lightly and are neither serious about your career or your relationship. Even if you get ready to marry her, you would not be able to provide for her simply because you are doing nothing about your sinking career.
- You do not keep her happy
If you are in a relationship, you must make time to spend with your partner. What is the point of being in a relationship if you do not give any attention to your partner? She expected you to spend time with her and nurture the relationship which you have failed to do. [ Read: Difference Between Love and Marriage Explained [ In A Short Story ] ]
It is not very difficult to know what a woman thinks. Every human being has certain emotions. You just need to observe them while they bring these emotions to the fore. You need to observe these signs to know whatever you want to know. Patience is the key here and you should observe them carefully before forming your own opinions.