How to Maintain Your Partner’s Interest in You
Falling in love and being in a relationship with the person you love seems such a beautiful feeling. In the starting you both talk to each other a lot, spend some wonderful evenings with each other, go for candle light dinner, gift each other with some beautiful things and so on. There comes a time when you cannot even imagine one simple day without talking to them. You get possessive for your partner, you feel jealous of their friends, and you like to take care of all small things that make your partner happy, you fulfil their wishes, load them with surprises and what not. [ Read: 11 Everyday Things to Keep Your Partner Happy ]
But after a while when your relationship comes to a stage of stability and when you are done with all these cheesy things that everyone does in the initial stages of a relationship, your mind starts diverting here and there and the same happens with your partner too. Even your partner takes a few steps back from all the above things as the relationship starts to grow old. You both may be together but you get busy with your own lives. You have less time to spend with them and you focus more on yourself and your life goals. This is a stage when you and your partner may be losing interest in each other.
What you will do when you suddenly realize that your partner is losing interest in you? You will definitely not feel good. So in order to maintain your partner’s interest in you, here are a few tips that can be helpful in such a situation:
- Groom yourself and look your best
Sometimes you partner may lose interest in you because of your everyday casual looks. First of all, keep in mind that you shouldn’t compare yourself with others around. You are different and it is important that you be yourself. You should try wearing different and colourful outfits. It gives a lively feeling to the other person. You can even try changing your looks by getting a new haircut, wearing a new pair of glasses or shades. [ Read: She Wrote a Letter to Her Life Partner on his Birthday to Surprise him ]
- Keep them intrigued
This is something that you should know even at the starting of your relationship. Opening up completely to your partner quickly will later lead to boredom when you have nothing new to tell or show about yourself to your partner. Be secretive and slowly bring out new things about yourself. This keeps them hooked on to you.
- Plan for new surprises
It may be possible that you have given your partner a lot of surprises at the beginning itself but a new surprise every time excites the opposite person all over again. Try and make the surprise different from the previous ones like plan and adventure trip for the both of you or with a group, go on a date at a cruise or anything like that. Gift them with their favorite perfume or their favorite gadget they always wanted to buy. [ Read: Guy Writes an Open Letter to His Long Distance Relationship Partner ]
- Do things of their interest
Doing things that they like will make them happy and joyful. Suppose you know that your partner always wanted to learn horse riding but due to some or the other reason, they could not do it. Get your name and your partner’s name enrolled for horse riding classes somewhere.
- Pamper them
Everyone loves to be pampered no matter how much they resist. Especially girls love it when they are being pampered. And even though guys may say they don’t like all this pampering, but somewhere, they enjoy it too. You can pamper them by taking them out for shopping, gifting them a spa voucher or anything. [ Read: Do I Miss My Best Friend in My Life Partner? ]
- Be enthusiastic
Suppose you both get free time on the weekend, don’t just let the weekends pass by sitting and relaxing at home. Be enthusiastic and ask your partner to plan a weekend getaway. It is a very good option to spend quality time with each other.
In every relationship, there comes a time when you partner may lose little bit of interest you. This does not mean that they are going out with someone else. It just means they are busy in other important things in life and their focus has shifted a little bit towards those things rather than you. First of all, don’t be disheartened. Things are not over between you both. There is still hope. All you need is to remind your partner about all that you both have shared; the love, the care, the emotions and everything. The above given tips are good ways as to how you can keep your partner interested in you. But make sure you really want to get back their interest. If you yourself have lost interest in them, then there is no point in continuing with the relationship or feel bad about them losing interest in you. Once you follow your tips, your partner’s interest will bounce back and the missing spark will also revive. [ Read: 10 Romantic Love Messages To Text Your Partner ]
This time comes between all relationships sooner or later. But it completely depends on you as to how to take it – positively or negatively. Being negative about it will make you lose your partner all the more. So it is important that you take this matter into serious consideration and positively act upon it so as to keep them interest in you forever. So, all the best! Go for it…