Good vs. Bad – What Kind Of Guys Do Girls Like?
Do girls like nice guys or do they fall for the bad ones? If you are a decent, nice fellow and have not been able to woo a girl till date, then the most common thing that most of your friends must be telling you is that girls like bad boys. That is the reason they do not fall for you. It is not that they do not like you. They do but as a friend, classmate and…well brother. The reason they do not see you as a potential boyfriend is that you are too nice a person and there is no adventurous streak in you. This is what you have been told by your friends. You must know that this is not the truth. Not to a great extent, at least. [ Read: Dealing With Your Man’s Flirty Female Friends ]
Different girls have different choices and preference when it comes to their choice of partner. Some girls have a checklist containing more than hundred traits or qualities that a guy should possess. And then, there are girls who do not have a wish list as such and look for a guy who can give them a lot of love and treat them with respect. Some girls get attracted to guys based on the music they listen to, their fashion sense, communication skills etc. So, you have to groom yourself and inculcate certain traits that the girl you are in love with wants to see in you. If you are in love with a girl, you must try to figure out what does she likes and what kind of guy would she like to date. Try to be friends with her and know her properly s that you can transform yourself in to the dream man she has envisioned about. It could be difficult if you are willing to date anyone and are just looking for just about any random girl. As mentioned earlier, different girls have different choices and preferences, hence you must focus on wining the heart of that one girl whom you like the most. [ Read: Find out are You More than Friends or Just Friends? ]
Having said that, if you want to look at this issue in a generic manner, then it could be believed that girls at a younger age look for guys who are slightly ambitious, adventurous ad are willing to take risks. They move around with a certain attitude and have eyes that read ‘do not mess with me’. Every individual is slightly adventurous and fun loving when they are in their youth. This applies to both girls and guys. Of course, there are girls who even at a young age looking for a stable and committed relationship. But, as we are seeing things on a macro level, we could safely state that it is the bad boys who get the girls at this age. So, do not get surprised if the girl you were in love with chose that rough and tough guy with an attitude over you. You must have wondered as to why she chose an ‘uncivilized’ fellow like him over a decent fellow like you. Now you know. It is unlikely that the girl will settle down with that guy as he is not someone who could provide her with a secure and normal life. Maybe she realizes this. Maybe she does not. But, her heart clearly beats for that guy at the moment and to her, the present is the only time period she feels the need to think about. A calm, decent and sophisticated guy like you does not figure out in her present. [ Read: 15 Things Girls Wish Guys Knew about Girls ]
As girls come out of college and deal with life on their own, their bubble bursts and they realize one needs to have stability in life. The impulsive nature of youth makes way for a more mature and evolved self. Now, they feel the urge to find true love; to be with a person who would love them passionately and who could promise them of a bright and secure future. They are no longer interested in zooming off on sports bike with their boyfriend or breaking rules in life. They have had their share of fun and madness. Now life asks them to be responsible and mature. The kind of guys they used to like back in the day are the ones who repulse them. They cannot stand the presence of such guys now. People change as they take up responsibilities and grow older. They look for the good guys now. They wish to settle down with guys who would be confident about their present and could foresee their future. [ Read: Cute Little Things Guys Do That Girls LOVE So Much… ]
There is someone made for everyone. There is someone waiting for you. You just need to them. Do not get disheartened if you face rejection in love. Do not feel inferior because of your failures. It has never been a fight between bad boys and good boys. The girls make the choice and they have every right to do so. You need to be happy with your own self and keep looking for love until you find it.