Classy Flirting Tips to Avoid Looking Desperate
Flirting is an art! The art of saying I LIKE IN YOU in a different but classy manner. Its not about sending raunchy texts or liking each and every posts of his/her in the social media. Its all about being YOU but in a different manner. Don’t worry, LikeLoveQuotes are here to help you sort it out.
1#Be a mystery:
At times less is more and in this case, its the best way to make your crush a bit more inclined toward you. Don’t reveal anything and everything in the first meet, leave something to the imagination. Be a mysterious enigma, who is hard to solve but not difficult to understand.
Read: #Flirting Guide for the Shy Guy
2#Be less Approachable:
Never be easily available each time he/she calls you. Show them you are really busy but never reveal the details. This is not some kind of attitude but a gesture to show that I have my own works too, call sometime later! In shor, make him/her wait for you.
3#Try to be more classy than nerdy:
This is applicable for both him and her. Reading a book looks more classy than reading your phone. Or even doing the things you love like – Photography, solving cross words, etc. THINK ABOUT THAT.
Read :Honesty Is A Very Expensive Gift
4#Dress in style:
Dressing plays a very important role in every phase of life, be it job or FLIRTING, dress is that gear which can make your car run or stop in the middle of the road.So, always dress classy, like- Avoid wearing anything too much revealing, or something to shiny. Be more comfortable but make sure not to flaunt too much. Be cool, be casual, dress up for him/her, but don’t go over the board.
5#Learn to say NO:
“Hey can we go for a ride together”
“No dude, wont be possible this time.Sorry”
You might think that this will make you look cranky and bossy, but believe me, showing a bit attitude is healthy. This is a gesture to show that he/she is indeed important but not more than your work and also you are not easily approachable. But yes, never forget your manners, use those courtesy words whenever necessary and mind your postures.
Read : How to Apologize and Say Sorry to a Lover
6#Speak with your EYES:
Its way more intimate and penetrating than words. But please don’t stare at him. There is a hell and heaven difference between the two. Eye to eye contact means while talking look into his eyes and talk, or when he is coming to you look into his eyes and smile a little.
7#Be a good listener:
Don’t just TALK,TALK TALK, the first rule of gaining that extra attention is being a good listener. Nobody likes a speaker who keeps on moving his/her lips without listening to others.
8#Learn to converse than just talking:
Learn to know the difference between talking and banter.Make your conversation more deep (NOT PERSONAL). Add a tinge of humor, add that signature punch lines of yours, talk about your life, your decisions, but don’t make it an emotional affair. Keep it light and memorable.
9#Praise him/her genuinely:
Point no.7 comes handy in this case. Try to notice that something unique in him/her and praise them. Make it more romantic but not mushy, create that vibe of shy love.
10#Be confident but not OVER-CONFIDENT:
Yeah, the most important rule in every sphere of your life. And you know what.nothing is more sexier than a good confidence, but, as I said NOT OVER CONFIDENCE.
I can do it- Confidence
Only I can do it- Over confidence
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