15 Signs She’s Leading You to Nowhere on the Relationship Path!
It’s at times confusing when a girl shows interests in you, dates you, hangs out with you and still doesn’t want to call you her boyfriend. This can be very misleading too. Falling in love with somebody should be a healthy experience, not one of those confusing ones. But most of the time, it may seem that you are with the right woman and she comes out to be wrong in the end.
Are you head over heels crazy for a girl who behaves like your girlfriend but then acts as you’re a nobody for her when she doesn’t need you? You are then just leading your heart to a direction where she must be just toying with you and nothing else. [ Read: 12 Things Guys Like in a Girl besides Her Appearance ]
If you’re leading a complicated relationship wherein your girlfriend is taking you nowhere by behaving like your better half but still doesn’t want to date you, then you should take some step and have a serious conversation with her. Many girls are fickle minded when it comes to the functioning of serious relationships. Some may need time to make up their mind for such a commitment.
In some cases, a girl whose often giving you mixed signals may slightly like you but she might be worried what her friends may think of you. She might be a people pleaser. Some people are too worried what people may think of their choice and they get happiness from how others judge their choice or preference.
If you feel that the girl is leading you nowhere, then just walk away before it’s too late! Keep these 15 points in mind and lead on a cheat-free life!
- She conveys that she loves you!
You almost feel that you’re in a relationship with her already. She may constantly tell you that she loves you and needs you at all hours of the day. She always wishes to have your complete attention. [ Read: 13 Clingy Girlfriend Traits You Must Avoid ]
- She lands up with somebody else!
She might date another guy and still gives you the same old special attention which has the ability to confuse you at the same time. You wouldn’t care much about her different interests unless you’re receiving the same attention from her.
- She wants your full attention!
She hates it when you give importance to some other girl. She would even try to win you back when you start falling for another girl. She wouldn’t let you go away from her. [ Read: An Open Letter From Girlfriend To Her Boyfriend ]
- She needs you when she’s feeling lonely!
She comes to have a conversation with you only when she’s feeling lonely. She doesn’t care what you’re up to when she’s having fun. But when she’s feeling bored or lonely, then she reminds you that she misses you and you need to take out time for her.
- She portrays herself as if she’s helpless.
She completely has the power to convince you that she needs you and how important you are for her. She portrays that she’s helpless without your advices. She tells you that she needs you every now and then. [ Read: Boyfriend Writes An Open Letter To His Girlfriend ]
- She wants you to be close to her.
When you try to give her the required space when she’s being distant, all of a sudden she transforms her behaviour and starts to gather your attention when you back off.
- A secret thing!
Only a handful of friends of hers must be knowing about your little secret that you two are dating or are on the verge of dating. It’s a secret relationship and she just has to keep it this way. [ Read: 10 Signs You Are Dating A Girl Worth Keeping ]
- The nameless relation!
Now, you are on the verge of sharing a nameless relationship with the girl you love the most. She may go out on dates with you, flirts with you but doesn’t wish to give the relationship a name. She still calls you a good friend and nothing more than that.
- She cuddles you up!
She may get cozy with you now and then but doesn’t give you any commitment. All these things depends on her mood and plans. You just rejoice yourself with the moody trash she puts up with you which is not worth it if there’s no surety. [ Read: 12 Prince Charming Traits That Make Girls Swoon! ]
- She’s far away!
She’s far away from you when you try to be a little clingy. When you increase your attention giving, she makes herself lost in other things which could take her away from you.
- She’s not been with many guys!
She claims to you that she has dated a couple of guys. She probably tells you that she was engaged in just a few number of relationships. That probably can be the case when she just consider guys like dates and not exes, the thing she’s leading you on too. [ Read: 11 Bad Girl Traits Every Guy Seeks In His Girl! ]
- She’s moody!
She’s over friendly with you sometimes and all of a sudden she may stop talking to you or start ignoring you. You may notice that she ignores you only when she’s getting attention from the rest of the guys.
- Flirty conversations over the phone!
There’s more intimacy over the phone than in person. She may not be too open to you in person about her inner desires. But, when you chat over the phone call, she’s all up for flirty conversations with you. [ Read: Cute Little Things Guys Do That Girls LOVE So Much… ]
- She may easily get attracted by another guy!
When a girl knows you are the type of guy who may be easily led on, she will treat you the same way. She thinks it’s all okay when she likes another guy but if you do the same, when you mingle up with some other girl, she tries to take you away from her.
- She doesn’t want to respond that you like her!
She becomes very inexact when you try to make her acknowledge about your feelings. Every time you mention her your feelings, she just tries to get away with the topic but still be affectionate to you so that you don’t go away from her. [ Read: Tips To Know That The Girl You Like Is Making A Fool Out Of You ]
Put these 15 points in your mind to know if the girl is leading you on! If you find out these traits in your relationship, then just get away with it as soon as possible.