12 Things Happy Couples Talk About and Feel Closer
Having a good conversation with your partner is the most important thing in a relationship. In fact, being able to communicate properly with your partner leads to a healthy, long lasting relationship. Good communication skills are very important in a relationship. If both of you can talk to each other for hours without getting bored of each other’s company, then it shows a high degree of compatibility between the two of you.
Here is a list of 12 Things Happy Couples Talk About and Feel Closer:
- Their feelings
It is very important to let your partner know how you feel about them. By keeping your feelings to yourself you devoid them of the love they crave for. You can expect them to reciprocate your feelings if you let them know about yours. Tell them how much you love them and the lengths to which you are willing to go for their happiness. [ Read: 9 Habits of Happy Couples ( They Never Talk About) ]
- Childhood memories
Your partner might not necessarily be someone who has seen you from childhood or has any information about it. We all get nostalgic when we think about our childhood. Sharing the fond memories you have of your childhood with each other will be a very fulfilling experience as childhood days are full of innocence and bliss. Those were the days when life was a lot less complicated.
- The time you both spent together
Talk about the wonderful moments you both have shared with each other. You could talk about old memories or the time you both have spent in the recent past. It is always nice to relive the moments that have a special place in the hearts of both of you. Talk about your favourite memories and things that you would like to do again. [ Read: 12 Real Warning Signs Why Couples Drift Apart Over Time? ]
- The difficult times
Every relationship comes with its own set of challenges. There might be a time, in the past, in which both you had several differences and had difficulties in resolving them. There could have been parental oppositions as well. The thing that matters is that the difficult days are over. Remembering those days will strengthen your belief in the fact that true love can deal with any adversity and emerge triumphant.
- Crack jokes
Conversations should be interspersed with humour. You don’t have to remember jokes to crack in front of your partner. Just go with the flow of the conversation and you will get many opportunities to say something witty. Sharing a good, full throated laugh with your partner is a sign that your relationship is going great guns. [ Read: 12 Delicate Signs of a Loveless Unhappy Marriage ]
- Talk about the things that you like
Discussing your likes and dislikes with your partner will help you getting to know each other better. It’s okay if your favourite movie is not the same as hers and her favourite dish is something you are not too fond of. Both of you can have different tastes and that could actually help you get to know about things you were not aware of. Being a couple does not mean having similar preferences. You should respect each other’s choices and could even try to imbibe some of those.
- Philosophical discussions
There is more to life than meets the eye. If you have a philosophical bent, then you could engage in various conversations of high intellect and profound metaphors with your partner. Most people avoid talking about philosophies as they fail to understand the deeper meaning of things. If you have a partner understands you and is willing to listen to your thoughts, then you can talk to them about various subjects. [ Read: 10 Ways To Bring Back The Lost Spark In Your Relationship ]
Every person has some aspiration in life. Talk to your partner and ask them about their dreams and goals in life. As a couple you should support each other in fulfilling your ambitions in life. All of us need some support and guidance to reach our goals. We always look for people to share our dreams with and talk about them. Also, you cannot let everybody know about your aspirations as most of them will not understand your vision and will not take you seriously. But, your partner is the one who will support you and help you move forward with your goals.
- The embarrassing moments
There are several embarrassing moments that you would have gone through together. Talk about them and you find yourself laughing at those moments that once made you go red with embarrassment. There could be some incidents that you had to go through on your own which your partner is not aware of. Talk about those incidents and give your partner a good reason to laugh. [ Read: Ways To Hurt Less And Love More In A Relationship ]
- Future plans
If you both plan to spend your entire life together, then you have to sit down together and plan your future. From discussing the time you want to get married to the finances, talk about everything so that when you decide to take the plunge, everything is sorted and there is no confusion.
- Day to day activities
Most people are not interested to know as to what you did the entire day and how did your day go. But, your partner is always keen to know about your day to day activities and ask you about your daily plans. A smile breaks on their lips when you tell them you had a good day and they get worried about you if you had to go through some trouble. [ Read: Learning Lessons And Applying Them To Your Relationships ]
Our lives are so vast that there is so much that one could talk about them. Talk about the various aspects of life. The conversation could be about your own life or you could ask your partner about the well being of their parents, relatives and friends. Show them that you care about their kin as well.
There are several things that you can discuss with your partner. From seeking advice on career to taking their help in buying an outfit, your partner is someone whom you can talk about anything under the sun to. The conversations can range from being serious to overly fun. There is one thing you must keep in mind though. There should not be a dull moment throughout the conversation. Your partner should not get disinterested midway through the conversation. After all, if not your partner then who else would you open up to?