11 Things that Make a Man Attractive to Women
The biggest question that most men need answers to is what does a woman find attractive in them? Well we have heard quite a few different points of views on this topic as it is a personal choice and varies from women to women however we have made a list of some of the most common things that women find attractive and alluring in men that have been mentioned below.
Read on to decipher the female brain.
- He is strong!
By strength we don’t mean our men should be able to break teeth and bones. Neither do we want him to be in the gym 18 hours a day. Strength has got nothing to do with the number of bench press or pushups he can do, although a nice body isn’t any harm. The strength here is about the internal fortitude of a man. There’s nothing sexier than a man who’s grounded, who is confident enough to know who he is and who he wants to be. There should be an air of dignity about him that would speak of confidence and maturity without a hint of arrogance. [ Read: 5 Reasons why hardships make love stronger ]
- He has to be accessible!
A strong man is also vulnerable. This means he has to be open about his fears, anxieties and insecurities. He must be able to tell his woman about what he is afraid of. Strength should not make him an unbreakable stone; in fact he should have the ability to make the relationship as strong as the lion’s roar. Without transparency, there can be no genuine intimacy.
- He is honest!
Boys may play around, men are different men are integral. A man who pretends to be something that he’s not is the most sickening thing in the world. Boys play cheap tricks on their women; men possess a depth of feeling and emotions. Real men understand the value of honesty in any relationship and also know their woman’s worth. [ Read: 16 Bad Habits That Can Hurt Your Relationship ]
- Intellect is sexy!
His Audi or the latest model of iPhone may not appeal to his woman as much as his intelligence would. Great brains would never stop being beautiful.
- Sense of humor is the need of the hour!
It’s hard to imagine a man who lacks sense of humor. For an average fun loving woman it’s almost impossible to connect with a man who lacks sense of humor. Men with traits of being ultra-literal, hyper-serious or who rarely laughs is boring and hardly any woman would want to date him ever in her life. Smart people read nuances and see the humor in situations. And the brand of humor is critical. Even if a guy is hot, if his version of funny doesn’t sync with mine, the sexy won’t stay sexy for long. [ Read: How does Your Humour Affect Your Relationship? ]
- Has to be warm enough!
Compassion and empathy do not only go with women, attractive guys carry these qualities equally well. A ready smile is all a woman wishes for after a long tiring day at work. Kind is sexy. It just is.
- Generous is the new hawt!
Stinginess is a big turn-off. Not only stingy with money, but also stingy with feelings, stingy men are hard to handle! You might want to save some money for future purposes but if your behavior shows a hint of miser, forget your girl! It has been also found that stingy men aren’t as good lovers as their more generous counterparts. It’s not sexy to sleep with someone who holds back physically or emotionally in bed. [ Read: 10 Personality Traits that Make the Ideal Perfect Guy ]
- Your affection turns her on!
Your warmth has to show in your actions. A soft kiss on the forehead, holding hands while out on an evening walk, a little hug every morning before leaving for work or a small peck right in the morning when the sun rays comes in through the window. All of these are sure to bind your girl to you forever. A man, who loves touch for the sake of touch, whether or not it leads to sex, is sexy.
- He is smart and intelligent
A man that is ambitious is a plus point however being overly ambitious is not welcomed. A confident, man is something that all women love, a man who can take charge in the middle of a crisis is what all women dream off. [ Read: 13 Pros & Cons of Dating Someone Smarter than You ]
- We are equal and individual!
While we spoke of commitment we meant you gave us equality in any and everything. Being dominated is never a girl’s choice. The sexiest guy on earth is the one who never tries to dominate his girl, who loves her and respects her individuality. Women have no time or patience for men who play games and control women in order to feel like men.
- His innate ability to do and understand things women can’t
Strong independent women hate seeking help for anything and everything, it’s just not worth depending on anyone for even the smallest of things, but it becomes so much easier at times to ask our men to take care of petty things. [ Read: 18 Deep Reasons Why You Don’t Have Any Friends! ]