11 Facts about Guys That Can Help You Read His Mind
Knowing your guy better is not an easy thing to do. To understand him you will have to make efforts and you will need more patience and more than just experience. Guys are not much expressive, they will not easily tell how they feel about you, how much they love you or how much they care about you. With time, they will become open with you and you will get to understand him in the right sense. [ Read: 15 Compliments for Guys They’ll Never Ever Forget! ]
When a guy and a girl are in a relationship, on some issues they may think alike, but there is difference in their opinion as well on some important matters. Understanding this difference and accepting each other the way they are is important. [ Read: 15 Things Girls Wish Guys Knew about Girls ]
Now if you really want to know what your guy is really thinking so that you can get to know him better quickly, then you must read the following listed facts about them that can help you read his mind – try to relate these facts with your guy so as to get a better understanding of his mind.
- Cling on to him
You can make your guy feel insecure about yourself if you start to flirt with some other guy right in front of his eyes. But on the other hand, he would feel like the best man in the world if you hang out with him in front of other men who are attracted towards you. [ Read: 13 Clingy Girlfriend Traits You Must Avoid ]
- Compliment him
Guys do not really get to hear compliments about themselves much too often from family members or friends, but if you wish to be in his mind more than anyone else then compliment him about everything that you like about him, especially if he is falling for you and he will remember your compliment always.
- Guys do not initiate easily
Guys do not easily talk about their feelings. Guys usually do not initiate a heart to heart conversation about how much he likes you or how madly he wants you or wants to spend time with you. This does not mean they are carefree. Give them time to open up with you before you think of questioning him about every single thing. [ Read: 15 Best Ways to Keep a Guy Hooked in the Relationship! ]
- Avoids taking help
Guys usually think of themselves as self-dependent. They will not ask for help from anyone because this is one thing they really dislike until things go beyond his control.
- They love their girls
Even though guys are not much expressive they surely and really love you with all their heart and deep down they really care for you. It’s just that they do not know how to express it through words. But their actions will make you feel their love for you. [ Read: 15 Things Girls Wish Guys Knew about Girls ]
- Guys are competitive
Guys are very competitive in nature when it comes to performance. Be in in school, academics or sports or teams leadership, or in terms of earning money in their job. Likewise, they want to be the best boyfriend in their friend’s circle or even in college.
- Seriousness towards commitment
It may seem too many people or say mainly most of the people that guys are phobic to commitment and they want to somehow escape from the tag of being committed, but that’s not true. Yes they do that time before they can get into a commitment kind of relationship, but once they do, they get very serious about it. This is because the male mind tells him that with commitment comes responsibility to take care of his girl, to give time to her and keep a balance between his relationship with his girl and with the rest of the world. [ Read: 10 Personality Traits that Make the Ideal Perfect Guy ]
- Their pretentious nature
You may get irritated at times when you see your guy is not listening to what you are saying or talking about. But the reality is, that they just pretend that they are busy and not listening to you. Actually they completely understand each and everything that you are saying, but just to avoid the start of any conflict between you two, he pretends that he is busy with his work.
- They hate knowing their faults
Male ego you see. They just can’t hear things about themselves like they did not do their job right, or they are not good at doing something, especially in the case when it’s a guy thing. Try not to point out their little mistakes. In fact, you can talk to them softly and politely about it. [ Read: 10 Sure Reasons Why a Guy Could Be Ignoring You! ]
- They do not understand double meaning talks
Guys do not understand what a girl says and what she actually means. You cannot play mind games with them. They will not understand you. Be straight forward with them about anything and everything.
- Guys have a smaller heart than girls
It may seem that breakups do not affect guys but the truth is that even they get hurt if they are really in love. At times, they are more heart broken that girls. [ Read: 10 Secret Things Guys Wish Girls Knew About Guys ]
Conclusion:
Knowing each other in a relationship is important. Knowing your guy inside out is equally important and most importantly to know what is actually going on in his mind. Once to learn to read his mind you will know him well and things will not complicate between you both ever. It is a fact that guys are not very expressive about their feelings, so it important that you learn to read his mind using the above given facts. This will make your relationship stronger and easier to carry on further.
